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[Editor's note: Have others you'd suggest? : Much like a dildo, but pear-shaped with a flared base.

: Visible signs to indicate to others one's area of BDSM interest; a color worn on the left indicates a top, on the right indicates a bottom.

For instance, not everyone uses safe words all the time after a while, but it's important to start out with them.

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BDSM only works when it's mutual pleasurable for everyone involved—so as soon as it's clear things have pushed too far, game over.

Most people who engage in sadism or masochism enjoy a sense of empowerment from enduring something difficult.

If they're not, try to talk to your partner about what they might be comfortable with trying at least once with you, to see how they truly feel about it.

: The act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties.

Richmond recommends reading up on BDSM, taking a class to learn about moves and scenarios you can play out with your partner, and bringing in a sex therapist if need be, so that you can figure out what your version of the practice looks like.